I Finally Started This Subject!

I have always wanted to speak my mind publicly. I tend to do it at home, it is called being truthful, and all the women I have ever discussed this subject with stress it as a need they have in a man, like, never telling lies. For a guy it has risks. Are we supposed to go through life lying to protect the feelings of others? I say, somewhat...... It would be wrong to always be so blunt that every conversation is a combat situation that ends in pain. So, my rule is, keep it as truthful as I can, but do not go out to hurt anyone by name-calling. It is a pity it is that way, because it would be great to be like the TV show Little Britain, but I am unable to go that far and have a clear conscience.