It is interesting to see how western society has developed into a rights-conscious entity. Kids have rights, so the ones who are clever can now abuse their parents without fear of a spanking. Women have rights that allow some of the more abusive ones to conduct life-long mental battles with their male counterparts.
Then there are the out-and-out b*tches who have the deliberate double standards - I heard of one, for instance, whom I knew personally as an acquaintance at one point, who was looking for threesomes on the internet, and posting nude pictures of herself, yet would adopt a high and mighty attitude at her workplace to any risque jokes that were made in her presence, and even, again at her workplace, would report guys she didn't like for sexual harassment if she happened to overhear a dirty joke, or part of a dirty joke they were telling another person.
I suspect it was triggered by her age and fading looks, coupled with an upbringing and low intelligence level, where she probably used her past good looks to manipulate men, and so did not develop a personality during her teenage years. In which case, it looks good on her that she is now suffering some kind of problem caused by her own past behaviour and failure to continue the same abuse as she could perpetrate when she was better looking. The power fades, the frustration increases.
I suspect that in Canada, as an ex-pat Limey, I could probably obtain government funding if I proposed a society for the maintenance of British cultural roots.
But, the worst thing to be in Canada these days is a Canadian-born white male.
Overall, I suspect that the reason why many good women enjoy having 'rights' is because they are not aware of the abusive use those same rights are put to by women with the desire to beat on men, whether the beating is physical, or even more common, extended long-term mental abuse.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
Is Marriage Worth Looking After?
Now, here is a hot topic.
I have to say that if I was re-married to my first wife, it might last nearly a full day, but maybe not.
I just don't have the patience any more for the blackmail crap that takes advantage of my insecurity!
But, as far as the current marriage goes, well, what with the age difference, I have to admit I am not in the drivers seat so to speak.
So, I would look after it the best I can, but if in the end the Missus wants out, then I have no control over that, so, instead of begging or something, I would likely work to get her set up in life the best I could, and allow it to end if that was unavoidable after much discussion.
So, it is an interesting question.
A better question would be - "If you feel uncomfortable in a marriage, and feel like your good nature is being abused for years on end, would you carry on doing whatever the partner said you should do"?
And the answer to that is a resounding NO! Dump the situation, and move on.
Life is too short, and women like that are easy to replace with better ones.
Now, there is an idea - the disposable spouse. Better not let women get hold of that idea, or guys like me will be instantly dumped!
I have to say that if I was re-married to my first wife, it might last nearly a full day, but maybe not.
I just don't have the patience any more for the blackmail crap that takes advantage of my insecurity!
But, as far as the current marriage goes, well, what with the age difference, I have to admit I am not in the drivers seat so to speak.
So, I would look after it the best I can, but if in the end the Missus wants out, then I have no control over that, so, instead of begging or something, I would likely work to get her set up in life the best I could, and allow it to end if that was unavoidable after much discussion.
So, it is an interesting question.
A better question would be - "If you feel uncomfortable in a marriage, and feel like your good nature is being abused for years on end, would you carry on doing whatever the partner said you should do"?
And the answer to that is a resounding NO! Dump the situation, and move on.
Life is too short, and women like that are easy to replace with better ones.
Now, there is an idea - the disposable spouse. Better not let women get hold of that idea, or guys like me will be instantly dumped!
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